Self doubt strikes me everywhere. It plagues my brain, invades my being making life tough. It is almost every other thought I have.
It doesn’t discriminate. Too many times to mention. In meetings, conversations with friends, time to myself and even during the weekly Tesco shop.
I seriously see so little value in myself so often. I am super critical of every word I speak. I beat myself up for acting/not acting in a certain way. I replay so much of my life with a overly critical brain.
I blame myself for everything. I often cannot see anything good in who I am. I fail to realise any positive actions I might take. I only see the negative.
I see the worst of me at all times. Boring, ugly, fat, shy, introverted, self centred, moody…the list could go on and on.
I’m not at all surprised when I lose contact with people. I know it is my fault. I can think of so many reasons why people don’t want to see me anymore.
The self doubt causes me to push people away. I’m so scared of losing contact that I often initiate it unwillingly feeling at least this way I am in control.
I consistently fear my husband will get fed up of me. I worry he will want to walk away.
I even spend time pondering how the unconditional love my two boys have for me will one day change. Perhaps when they are aware of my failings.
This crippling self doubt stops me from being myself. It stops me doing what I want to do in my career. It affects the relationships in all aspects of my day.